I’ve received a lot of queries lately from people asking how they can get revenge against their Narcissist that left them.When people are angry and hurting and they realize that they’ve been duped, lied to and manipulated, it’s normal to want the person responsible to feel what you’re feeling.
He has learned to adapt by mimicking the emotions of others whenever necessary.
When he sees something, he wants it and he goes after it, but if there are obstacles in the way they can be a source of great irritation.
When people don’t dance to his tune and acknowledge his superiority he will become exceedingly annoyed.
If you’re hurting and pining for his return – that is shear bliss for him.
Any time he can confirm to you and himself that he’s smarter and more superior, he will feel a sense of delight that looks and feels a lot like gloating.